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Every week, we bring together 4-8 men who connect easily to enjoy a meal and build genuine connections.

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Finally, a way to meet gay men without swiping, ghosting or awkwardness

Here's exactly what happens from the moment you join to the moment you sit down.

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Our matching quiz helps us understand who you are, what matters to you, and what makes for meaningful conversation in your life.

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We have meetups available every week. Pick a date that suits you best.

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We match you with a group of compatible men and send you the venue details.

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Choose who you'd like to stay in touch with. If it's mutual, we'll help you connect.

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Meet with a small group that feels right from the start

The men who join are looking for something simple; a warm conversation, a relaxed atmosphere, and a chance to meet others. No pressure, no expectations. Just good company.

Dinners

Enjoy a relaxed meal with men who feel easy to connect with

We bring together small groups who match in age, interests, and personality. Evenings feel calm, conversations flow naturally, and everyone can simply enjoy a pleasant night out without any pressure.

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After connecting half a million people online, we realized something was still missing.

Mingleo was created by the same team that has brought together 500,000+ people through global virtual summits and education platforms.

We learned that while online connection has value, nothing replaces sitting across from another human being and having an in-person conversation.

Mingleo brings our experience in building trusted communities to gay men ready for something better: real tables, real talk and real connections.

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Main Benefits You’ll Enjoy...

Meet men who are at a similar stage of life. No awkward small talk, just relaxed conversations with people who get it.

Build a new circle of friends. Meet new people, grow a trusted social circle.

Feel more confident going out. Our small groups make it easy to join, even if you’re introverted or don’t socialize much.

Enjoy meaningful conversations. Talk about life, interests and stories that matter, in a calm, unhurried setting.

Discover new places in your city. We choose cosy venues, so every meet-up feels like a small local adventure.

Boost your mood and overall wellbeing. Regular social time is proven to improve your health and longevity.

This Is Not For You If...

You can't commit to showing up. When you book, other people are counting on you. If you don't show up, this isn't fair to anyone.

You're not open to meeting different people. We match groups carefully, but our community is wonderfully diverse and we believe that’s a good thing.

You're looking for a dating service. While many friendships may naturally turn into romantic connections, that's not our focus.

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Why Our Events Work

Matched Not Random

We don't just throw people together. We look at interests, age, and what you're actually like – so conversation happens naturally.

Welcoming Venues

Relaxed restaurants where it's easy to talk. No loud music, no pretentious crowds, no one judging you or rushing you out.

Meetups Every Week

Not a one-off event. There's a dinner every week – a reason to get out and something to look forward to.

Safe & Secure

Every member shares our values of respect, openness, and genuine connection.

Gay men only

No explaining yourself. Everyone at the table gets it. A space where you can just be yourself without the anxiety.

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Feel more connected after their first dinner

78%

Come back every month

85%

Stay in touch with men they meet

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See What Others Are Saying

"The guys at my table were so different from each other but the conversation just flowed. We stayed two hours past the bill. Already planning to meet up again."
James, 47
Verified attendee
"The guys at my table were so different from each other but the conversation just flowed. We stayed two hours past the bill. Already planning to meet up again."
James, 47
Verified attendee
"The guys at my table were so different from each other but the conversation just flowed. We stayed two hours past the bill. Already planning to meet up again."
James, 47
Verified attendee
"I'm not really into the club scene or the apps for gay people. Never was. Don't go to Pride, don't follow drag culture, not on any dating apps. That just makes it harder to find and meet gay men. This was the first space where I didn't feel like I had to be a certain type of gay to fit in."
Oliver, 51
Verified attendee
"I'm not really into the club scene or the apps for gay people. Never was. Don't go to Pride, don't follow drag culture, not on any dating apps. That just makes it harder to find and meet gay men. This was the first space where I didn't feel like I had to be a certain type of gay to fit in."
Oliver, 51
Verified attendee
"I'm not really into the club scene or the apps for gay people. Never was. Don't go to Pride, don't follow drag culture, not on any dating apps. That just makes it harder to find and meet gay men. This was the first space where I didn't feel like I had to be a certain type of gay to fit in."
Oliver, 51
Verified attendee
"I moved to a new city last year and making friends as a gay man in your 20s is harder than anyone admits. This is the thing that actually worked for me."
Alex, 26
Verified attendee
"I moved to a new city last year and making friends as a gay man in your 20s is harder than anyone admits. This is the thing that actually worked for me."
Alex, 26
Verified attendee
"I moved to a new city last year and making friends as a gay man in your 20s is harder than anyone admits. This is the thing that actually worked for me."
Alex, 26
Verified attendee
"The guys at my table were so different from each other but the conversation just flowed. We stayed two hours past the bill. Already planning to meet up again."
James, 47
Verified attendee
"The guys at my table were so different from each other but the conversation just flowed. We stayed two hours past the bill. Already planning to meet up again."
James, 47
Verified attendee
"The guys at my table were so different from each other but the conversation just flowed. We stayed two hours past the bill. Already planning to meet up again."
James, 47
Verified attendee
"I'm not really into the club scene or the apps for gay people. Never was. Don't go to Pride, don't follow drag culture, not on any dating apps. That just makes it harder to find and meet gay men. This was the first space where I didn't feel like I had to be a certain type of gay to fit in."
Oliver, 51
Verified attendee
"I'm not really into the club scene or the apps for gay people. Never was. Don't go to Pride, don't follow drag culture, not on any dating apps. That just makes it harder to find and meet gay men. This was the first space where I didn't feel like I had to be a certain type of gay to fit in."
Oliver, 51
Verified attendee
"I'm not really into the club scene or the apps for gay people. Never was. Don't go to Pride, don't follow drag culture, not on any dating apps. That just makes it harder to find and meet gay men. This was the first space where I didn't feel like I had to be a certain type of gay to fit in."
Oliver, 51
Verified attendee
"I moved to a new city last year and making friends as a gay man in your 20s is harder than anyone admits. This is the thing that actually worked for me."
Alex, 26
Verified attendee
"I moved to a new city last year and making friends as a gay man in your 20s is harder than anyone admits. This is the thing that actually worked for me."
Alex, 26
Verified attendee
"I moved to a new city last year and making friends as a gay man in your 20s is harder than anyone admits. This is the thing that actually worked for me."
Alex, 26
Verified attendee

"I was skeptical. There is tons of poorly organized "events" for us. But this was actually just... normal. Good food, good chat, no weird energy. I've been back three times."
David, 24
Verified attendee
"I was skeptical. There is tons of poorly organized "events" for us. But this was actually just... normal. Good food, good chat, no weird energy. I've been back three times."
David, 24
Verified attendee
"I was skeptical. There is tons of poorly organized "events" for us. But this was actually just... normal. Good food, good chat, no weird energy. I've been back three times."
David, 24
Verified attendee
"Most of my close mates are straight. Love them, but there's stuff they just don't get. I wasn't looking to replace them – I just wanted a few gay friends who understood certain things without me having to explain. Found exactly that. We talk about everything now and it's nice that they just get it."
Liam, 32
Verified attendee
"Most of my close mates are straight. Love them, but there's stuff they just don't get. I wasn't looking to replace them – I just wanted a few gay friends who understood certain things without me having to explain. Found exactly that. We talk about everything now and it's nice that they just get it."
Liam, 32
Verified attendee
"Most of my close mates are straight. Love them, but there's stuff they just don't get. I wasn't looking to replace them – I just wanted a few gay friends who understood certain things without me having to explain. Found exactly that. We talk about everything now and it's nice that they just get it."
Liam, 32
Verified attendee
"I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We're happy but somewhere along the way we became that couple who only hangs out with each other. He did his first Mingleo dinner, loved it, now we both go separately. Sounds counterintuitive but it's been so good for us."
Nathan, 41
Verified attendee
"I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We're happy but somewhere along the way we became that couple who only hangs out with each other. He did his first Mingleo dinner, loved it, now we both go separately. Sounds counterintuitive but it's been so good for us."
Nathan, 41
Verified attendee
"I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We're happy but somewhere along the way we became that couple who only hangs out with each other. He did his first Mingleo dinner, loved it, now we both go separately. Sounds counterintuitive but it's been so good for us."
Nathan, 41
Verified attendee
"I was skeptical. There is tons of poorly organized "events" for us. But this was actually just... normal. Good food, good chat, no weird energy. I've been back three times."
David, 24
Verified attendee
"I was skeptical. There is tons of poorly organized "events" for us. But this was actually just... normal. Good food, good chat, no weird energy. I've been back three times."
David, 24
Verified attendee
"I was skeptical. There is tons of poorly organized "events" for us. But this was actually just... normal. Good food, good chat, no weird energy. I've been back three times."
David, 24
Verified attendee
"Most of my close mates are straight. Love them, but there's stuff they just don't get. I wasn't looking to replace them – I just wanted a few gay friends who understood certain things without me having to explain. Found exactly that. We talk about everything now and it's nice that they just get it."
Liam, 32
Verified attendee
"Most of my close mates are straight. Love them, but there's stuff they just don't get. I wasn't looking to replace them – I just wanted a few gay friends who understood certain things without me having to explain. Found exactly that. We talk about everything now and it's nice that they just get it."
Liam, 32
Verified attendee
"Most of my close mates are straight. Love them, but there's stuff they just don't get. I wasn't looking to replace them – I just wanted a few gay friends who understood certain things without me having to explain. Found exactly that. We talk about everything now and it's nice that they just get it."
Liam, 32
Verified attendee
"I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We're happy but somewhere along the way we became that couple who only hangs out with each other. He did his first Mingleo dinner, loved it, now we both go separately. Sounds counterintuitive but it's been so good for us."
Nathan, 41
Verified attendee
"I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We're happy but somewhere along the way we became that couple who only hangs out with each other. He did his first Mingleo dinner, loved it, now we both go separately. Sounds counterintuitive but it's been so good for us."
Nathan, 41
Verified attendee
"I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We're happy but somewhere along the way we became that couple who only hangs out with each other. He did his first Mingleo dinner, loved it, now we both go separately. Sounds counterintuitive but it's been so good for us."
Nathan, 41
Verified attendee

Our Safety Commitment

Always in public, always in a group

Every dinner is at a vetted restaurant with 4-8 people at the table. No one-on-ones, no strangers turning up, no weird surprises.

No d*ckheads policy

Disrespect, harassment, or creepy behaviour = immediate removal. We keep the table safe so you can relax.

Privacy protected

We don't share your details with anyone. Other members only see what you choose to share – and you decide who to stay in touch with after.

We're here if you need us

Questions, concerns, bad vibes at a dinner – reach out anytime. We actually respond.

Frequently Asked Questions

When will I know the venue details?

How are groups matched?

What's included with Mingleo?

How do I reserve my seat?

Who is Mingleo for?

What time do dinners start?

Is this a dating service?

Can I bring a friend?

How are dietary requirements handled?

How can I contact you?

Still have more questions?

Send us an email and we’ll be happy to help.

info@mingleo.com

Meeting gay men shouldn't be this hard

But it is.

The apps are for hookups. The bars get old. The scene isn't for everyone and even if it was, it's not where friendships happen.

Most gay men have plenty of acquaintances but few real friends. The kind you actually call, not just on Instagram. And somewhere along the way, making new ones started to feel... awkward. Forced. Like you missed a window.

You didn't.

You just need a better option than swiping, drinking, or hoping you'll randomly click with someone at a house party.

That's what this is. One dinner. A few hours.